Pressure To Have Sex

I recently met this new guy, and after two dates, he started to put lots of pressure on me to have sex with him. Okay, he is a really handsome guy, but like I told him, I am not ready to get naked with him as yet. As a matter of fact, I am not sure if he is friend or a lover as yet. Most of the guys that I meet seem to react in the same way once they find out that I work for London escorts. The girls at our London escorts agency all say the same thing, and I am pretty sure that it applies as a general rule.

But, I have spoken to other girls who do not work for escorts in London. Most of them say that guys really do put pressure on them to have sex, so it is not only escorts in London, who experience this. There seems to be a huge emphasis on women to jump in to bed with a guy as quick as possible but I don’t think it is good. I have heard about the five date rule and stuff like that, but I cannot see why we need to have any rules.

If you are not ready to go to bed with a guy after five dates, I simply don’t think that you should. It does not matter if you work for escorts in London services or not. Why should guys be allowed to put pressure on you to have sex with them? One of my colleagues here at London escorts said that a guy asked her for sex after the first date. She said no, and after that she never saw him again. She said it was a bit like he just wanted to have sex with her.

I know that escorts in London are good at standing up for themselves and saying no, but I am not sure about other women. Us girls really do need to be prepared to say no, and I think that a lot of single women, should take a leaf out of London escorts’ book and say no. Pressurizing a woman into going to bed with you, or having sex with you, is not that different from sex. To me, it shows that a man is not really interested in a relationship, he is really just after sex. I know that most men are sort of sexier than women, but there is no need for that sort of thing.

When I am ready to have sex with a guy, I will let him know. I will not say something like “take me home to bed” but I will start touching him in a certain way, and I will let him know that I am sexually available. If we have synced our emotions, he will pick up on that. If he does not pick up on it, I may think that the relationship is not going anywhere and cut him loss. It sort of sounds funny, but it is has worked for me.

Tips For Bedroom Bliss

Learning how to communicate in your relationship can improve your intimacy issues in the first place. Having an extra ordinary intimate relationship is fantasy in the Hollywood movies. We are faced with daily distractions like children and financial problems, making it impossible to make our intimacy issues better than average. However, couples can make improvements by:

Setting up Time

Start by synchronize those schedules. It is important to make plans and some pre-thought shows to spend time together with your partner. Getting into a sexual act in this environment is likely to take place.

Get Informed

Try reading from many sources like magazines to get informed. Places like kitchens may spice things up between you and your partner especially if you are the only two persons in the house. Try visiting a local bookstore together.

Bedeck the Bedroom

Make your sleeping place look more attractive. Get some new white linens and add repaint the room. Add some little warmth and intimacy to the room to make it more inviting for both of you.

Turn Off the Television

Most television programs offer no substantive content to viewers. Use your bedroom correctly; to rest, relaxation and romance. Find your stimulation in each. Also, do not get movies to distract both of you.

Emotional Therapy

Stay connected to each other. Talk of your expectations and set out standards for your relationship. Communication is key as one will express his feelings as the other listens. Be emotionally available for each other, doing what you both view to be good and what does not determine the two of you. Experiment this on our own time.


Talk about your intimate experiences. Be sure to say what hurt or excited about getting intimate in the past. Be open and tell each other your likes and dislikes. We are created differently and some enjoy pleasing others as they share their wants and desires.


Sex is good. It is best if the two persons doing it are allowed to put their most self into their intimate relationship. Discuss and respect individual preferences, taboos and lack of information.

You are the most amazing person who needs love and openness to someone who is worth you. Your partner is equally precious and should be treated with love. Choose them wisely and spend the years ahead learning how to open yourself up while you get into a sexual relationship with them.

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