I recently met this new guy, and after two dates, he started to put lots of pressure on me to have sex with him. Okay, he is a really handsome guy, but like I told him, I am not ready to get naked with him as yet. As a matter of fact, I am not sure if he is friend or a lover as yet. Most of the guys that I meet seem to react in the same way once they ﬁnd out that I work for London escorts. The girls at our London escorts agency all say the same thing, and I am pretty sure that it applies as a general rule.
But, I have spoken to other girls who do not work for escorts in London. Most of them say that guys really do put pressure on them to have sex, so it is not only escorts in London, who experience this. There seems to be a huge emphasis on women to jump in to bed with a guy as quick as possible but I don’t think it is good. I have heard about the ﬁve date rule and stuff like that, but I cannot see why we need to have any rules.
If you are not ready to go to bed with a guy after ﬁve dates, I simply don’t think that you should. It does not matter if you work for escorts in London services or not. Why should guys be allowed to put pressure on you to have sex with them? One of my colleagues here at London escorts said that a guy asked her for sex after the ﬁrst date. She said no, and after that she never saw him again. She said it was a bit like he just wanted to have sex with her.
I know that escorts in London are good at standing up for themselves and saying no, but I am not sure about other women. Us girls really do need to be prepared to say no, and I think that a lot of single women, should take a leaf out of London escorts’ book and say no. Pressurizing a woman into going to bed with you, or having sex with you, is not that different from sex. To me, it shows that a man is not really interested in a relationship, he is really just after sex. I know that most men are sort of sexier than women, but there is no need for that sort of thing.
When I am ready to have sex with a guy, I will let him know. I will not say something like “take me home to bed” but I will start touching him in a certain way, and I will let him know that I am sexually available. If we have synced our emotions, he will pick up on that. If he does not pick up on it, I may think that the relationship is not going anywhere and cut him loss. It sort of sounds funny, but it is has worked for me.